Self Fisting? Solo pleasure for your back door!

Fisting – by now, most people know what it is. Already widespread among gays, the feeling of a fist deep in your ass can bring many guys straight to orgasm. But what if there’s no lover around, or you don’t want to dive deep with the next party hookup? The solution: self-fisting!

Here, you’re your own partner—you can explore the right technique at your own pace, with no pressure, no expectations. Just you and your fist. Sounds hot, but is it even possible? Are your arms long enough to reach your own hole? Don’t worry—we’ve got the best tips to help you sink that fist exactly where it belongs.

The Perfect Position: How to Get Your Fist In

"My arms are too short!" – Nonsense. If your proportions are halfway normal, it’s all about positioning. Here are some proven self-fisting positions:

• Lying on your side – One of the most comfortable options. Try sliding your hand along your back toward your ass. The fist will almost glide in by itself.
• On your back with legs raised – A pillow under your back lifts your pelvis into the perfect angle and shortens the distance.
• Doggy position – A spicy option for flexible folks with long arms. Important: keep your butt low and not too high, or it becomes tricky.

If no position works, or your wrist gets too strained, there’s an easier solution: self-fisting with toys!

The Best Sex Toys for Solo Fisting

Not everyone can effortlessly slide in their own fist—and that’s exactly what fisting toys are for. From fist-shaped dildos and realistic hand molds to XXL models, there’s something for everyone.

• Fist- or hand-shaped dildos – Perfect for that authentic feeling, like your lover is diving deep inside you.
• Hands-free fisting – Dildos with suction cups can be mounted on smooth surfaces so you can slowly lower yourself onto them while squatting.
• Fisting plugs for beginners – If a full fist is too much at first, these specialized plugs are ideal. Wear them discreetly during the day or use them while jerking off for an extra thrill.

These plugs also help train your anus for larger stretching, in case you're preparing for a real fisting session with a partner.

The Perfect Preparation – Your Self-Fisting Starter Kit

Whether you're using your own fist or a dildo—improvising isn’t the way to go with self-fisting. Here are the essentials you need to get started safely and enjoyably:

• Relaxation is everything! – A relax spray helps your sphincter loosen up. Especially when solo-fisting, you’ll need to push through mentally—being relaxed makes it way easier.
• Lube, lube, lube! – Nothing works without long-lasting fisting lube. Standard lubes won’t cut it—you need specialized fisting formulas for maximum comfort.
• Gloves for hygiene & better grip – Sure, you can’t give yourself an STI, but bacteria still exist. Gloves protect both you and your sensitive anal lining. They also slide better when coated with lube.
• Poppers for the extra push – Special fist poppers help you relax. BUT: only use them if you're not completely alone—poppers can cause dizziness.

Why Self-Fisting At All?

You might wonder what the hype is about. Is it really that hot to fist yourself? Absolutely! Here are a few reasons more and more guys are getting into solo fisting:

• Get into fisting step-by-step – If you’ve never been fisted before, this lets you explore at your own pace to see if it’s your thing.
• The perfect prep for your next lover – Regular self-fisting or toy use helps condition your hole. That way, the next fist session will be smoother and more intense.
• Ultimate variety – Bored of jerking off? Add a whole new dimension with self-fisting. Whether you’re using a masturbator, dildo, or your fist—you’re in control of how deep you go.

Conclusion: Your Fist, Your Hole, Your Pleasure

Self-fisting is the perfect way to explore fisting at your own pace. With the right technique, the right toys, and a relaxed environment, the solo experience can be just as intense as a full-on fist session with a partner.